There is a tendency to live an unbalanced life. There are more times we act, think and do things for ourselves than ourselves. There are times when we feel like putting others first. We make a contribution to a charity, help with the community and give some money to those who are in need. This does not happen all the time, but when we do it, we begin to balance life out a little. What are we supposed to do with the struggle of being selfish and selfless? Is there a way to balance the two?