Most estate planning mistakes don’t start with bad intentions; they start with bad information. In this episode, we walk through the myths that quietly cost Florida families tens of thousands of dollars and, in some cases, fracture relationships beyond repair.

The conversation digs into why DIY estate planning so often backfires, especially in Florida. Pulling a power of attorney or will off the internet may look “good enough,” but missing witnesses, notary requirements, or critical powers can trigger guardianships, contested probates, and litigation that easily jumps from $7,000–$8,000 into the $50,000–$100,000 range.

We also dismantle the idea that Florida’s lack of a state estate tax means planning doesn’t matter. Listeners learn how the federal estate tax is just one small piece of the puzzle compared with income tax planning, choosing the right fiduciaries, and designing distributions that reflect real family dynamics and values.

The discussion then zeroes in on two Florida-specific landmines: powers of attorney that automatically terminate at death, and Florida’s homestead rules, which offer powerful asset protection but impose strict, often misunderstood limits on how a home can be transferred, especially when there’s a spouse or minor children.

Grounded in the realities of the Space Coast, listeners come away with a clear message: get qualified, state-specific guidance before a health crisis or death makes it too late to fix avoidable mistakes.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Hidden costs and risks of DIY estate planning for Florida families
• Why online powers of attorney and wills often fail Florida’s legal requirements
• Common myths around estate tax and why Florida residents still need solid planning
• Unique estate planning challenges tied to Florida homestead laws
• Special planning considerations for Space Coast retirees, aerospace professionals, and military families

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Most Florida families have an estate plan built on bad information. In this episode, Stephen Lacey breaks down the myths that quietly drain estates, delay inheritances, and tear families apart, starting with the one that surprises almost everyone: a will does not avoid probate.

Stephen brings 25 years of Florida estate planning experience to the conversation. He covers why middle-class families need a plan as much as the wealthy do, what Florida's homestead and elective share laws can do to a surviving spouse, and why an estate plan signed decades ago in another state can create serious problems today.

He also shares a case that still stays with him, one that shows exactly what happens when planning falls short and family conflict fills the gap.

If any of this sounds familiar, this episode is a good place to start.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Why a will does not avoid probate in Florida, and what a will actually does
• Estate planning for every family, not just high-net-worth individuals
• How Florida's intestacy statutes decide where assets go when there's no plan
• The five life changes that should trigger an immediate plan review
• Why out-of-state estate plans often fail Florida's homestead and elective share laws
• The real risks facing blended families and surviving spouses without proper documents
• Why "set it and forget it" is one of the most costly mistakes Florida families make

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Florida homeowners have a powerful tool for passing property to their loved ones without the cost and delay of probate court. But without thoughtful planning, this tool can have devastating long-term consequences. Stephen Lacey, a Florida estate planning attorney, breaks down exactly how Lady Bird deeds work, why retained control sets them apart from traditional life estate deeds, and the situations where they make the most sense — including Medicaid planning and late-life transfers.

Stephen also covers the mistakes that derail these deeds: missing spousal signatures, missing the enhanced language that makes the deed valid, and naming grantees who predecease the grantor. A do-it-yourself deed can trigger tax reassessments, invalidate homestead protections, or spark family disputes that outlast any lawsuit.

One conversation with the right attorney can prevent all of it.

In this episode, you will hear:

• What a Lady Bird deed is and why Florida homeowners are talking about it
• How retained control separates enhanced life estate deeds from traditional ones
• When a Lady Bird deed makes sense — and when a trust is the smarter move
• The homestead rules that catch even attorneys off guard
• Why DIY deeds can trigger tax reassessments and family disputes that don't heal
• Medicaid planning and why no actual title transfer matters more than people realize
• What to expect when calling Stephen Lacey's office for an estate planning conversation

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Probate in Florida can drag on for nine months to a year, cost families 3% of their assets in attorney's fees alone, and leave grieving relatives waiting 45–60 days just to access basic funds. Estate planning attorney Stephen Lacey breaks down exactly why that happens — and what to do before it does. He covers revocable trusts, beneficiary designations, joint ownership pitfalls, and Florida's homestead rules, with the kind of candor you don't always get from someone in his field.

Stephen also walks through the most common trust mistakes he sees: unfunded accounts, outdated beneficiary designations, and out-of-state property that quietly triggers a second probate. One overlooked bank account with $10,000 in it can cost $4,500 to probate.

The right plan, built before it's needed, changes everything for the families left behind.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Why probate in Florida typically runs nine months to a year — and sometimes much longer
• The real cost breakdown, including 3% attorney's fees and what court filing actually runs
• Revocable trusts as the gold standard for avoiding probate, and why having one isn't enough
• Beneficiary designation mistakes that send assets through probate anyway
• How joint ownership works in Florida, and where it falls short as a long-term strategy
• Florida homestead rules and the hidden complications they create for surviving spouses and children
• What families can do to make probate faster and less expensive when it can't be avoided

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Stephen Lacey grew up watching his parents treat people from all walks of life with the same level of care and respect. That early lesson, that character matters more than credentials, shaped the attorney he became, and it's the reason 3-2-1 Legacy Liftoff exists.

In this first episode, Stephen traces his path from Mercer Law School to a University of Florida tax LL.M. to a desk hidden behind a bookcase in his father-in-law's Melbourne, Florida firm. He talks about why estate planning conversations don't have to be grim, how misinformation about power of attorney keeps landing families in probate they never planned for, and why he built his practice around education first.

Legacy is values, assets, and protection — sometimes all three at once. Stephen Lacey is here to help families sort out which one they actually need.

In this episode, you will hear:

• Growing up in a military family that moved constantly, and what that taught him about people
• Mercer Law School, a University of Florida LL.M. in tax law, and the decision that shaped his specialty
• Starting his career behind a literal bookcase in his father-in-law's Melbourne, Florida firm
• Why estate planning meetings don't have to feel heavy — and how his office is built around that
• The power of attorney myth that keeps sending families straight into probate
• Why he talks to every client about real estate, tax law, business structure, and asset protection in the same conversation
• What legacy actually means — values, asset protection, and making sure hard-earned money survives bad luck

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Legacy Liftoff is the podcast from Lacey Rezanka Law Firm for Florida families and high-net-worth individuals who want straight answers—and a plan that actually holds up when life gets complicated. We cut through the noise around avoiding probate, protecting assets, and minimizing tax exposure, with clear, practical guidance you can use to make confident decisions.

Hosted by the attorneys at Lacey Rezanka, each episode tackles the questions we hear every day—what you can do now to protect what you’ve built, how trusts really work, what triggers probate problems, and how to avoid costly mistakes caused by oversimplified internet advice. Expect myth-busting, real-world examples, and a client-first approach grounded in experience.