The temptation is to refuse to see, to want to remain blind. Sometimes we think it’s easier to remain in the dark than for us to heal and/or change. When we see things as they really are, sometimes we will need to change, especially if we want our situation to change, or if we need healing of some type.  Sometimes in order for us to heal we have to be able to forgive. Sometimes we just need help. We need Jesus' help.