In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners..
1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit.
2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you.
3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to.
4. Why do partners feel the need to overspend on you fresh out the gate? 


Family meeting:
1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?"
2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?"


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72. Lesbian Dating & Relationships

Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/leschatpodcast/support

Sexuality

Health

Health & Fitness

In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs.
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Family Meeting
1. "I was dating this girl, I ended up finding out she was the girlfriend (now ex) to Salice Rose, ( a popular influencer)".
2. "My friends girl came up to me saying she found me very attractive and would try to make a move on me.."


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102. Coming Out At Work

EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ+ dynamics.
Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, past traumas, or attachment styles. We emphasize the importance of healthy communication and setting boundaries to address underlying insecurities.


TROVA TRIP LINK: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec 
Family Meeting Questions: 
1. What do you guys feel about one another going to a strip club?!
2. Communicating with a female has been the hardest for me because is this normal?
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101. Unraveling Jealousy

In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking. 
We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself. 
LES CHAT QUEER TRIP: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec (takes about 2 mins)
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Family Meeting Questions:
1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore".
2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK"


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100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups

Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships. 
Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance.
Sources:
https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction 

WHAT KIND OF ATTRACTION AM I FEELING?


1. "I’m in a situation where I have a long term gf but my best friend recently confessed to me that she is platonically in love with me”.


“I noticed how pretty this girl from the gym is is and now i want to make a move but not sure if she likes girls. What should I do?  How should i talk to her?"

cheated on me with a GUY co-worker less than a month into her new role."

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99. Six Different Types of Attraction

Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice!
As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questions that would be perfect for first dates. Some of them were…

 Would you rather spend a day with your younger self or older self? 

 What advice would you impart to your 10-year-old self if given the chance? 

  And in the event of memory loss, what would be the first thing you'd say to help regain memories?


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72. Lesbian Dating & Relationships

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