Welcome to Sex & Spirituality. In today's episode in honor of Pride Month, I talk about what gay women can teach straight women about sex as well as sex tips straight guys can learn from lesbians.

Lesbians have more orgasms than straight and bisexual women. Research shows heterosexual women don’t expect to have an orgasm, while women in lesbian relationships assume an orgasm is a given. Since lesbian sexual relationships expect both partners to have an orgasm, they put the time and effort in during foreplay and oral sex to make sure it happens. There's an important lesson here for straight couples. Maybe it's a good idea to rethink the script that short, frequent, penetrative intercourse equals satisfaction. Men may want sex, but women don't want just sex, they want good sex, and bad sex can be a deal breaker. So I think we can safely assume straight guys could stand to learn something about pleasing women from their lady-loving counterparts.

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