Lessons from the Playroom

Lessons from the Playroom Special: Gender Identity & Sexual Orientation in the Playroom

06.14.2022 - By Lisa DionPlay

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Original Air Date: October 16, 2017 Dustin Baker joins Lisa to talk about sexual identity and sexual orientation in the playroom - a topic not discussed often enough in the field of play therapy. Learn how embracing these topics benefits our clients. After all, children are colorful (and so are we). Here's what you'll hear in this episode: 1:45 Lisa introduces Dustin Copenhefer 2:49 The need for more play therapy resources on gender orientation and identity 3:15 Sexual identity versus sexual orientation 4:15 The importance of multi-cultural counseling 6:10 The importance of staying curious 7:45 How play appreciates the uniqueness of people 8:36 Different is normal 9:56 What does this look like in the playroom? Where can play therapists start? 10:50 How can you let children know that they're in a safe place? 11:40 "All of you is welcome" 12:30 The importance of dress-up items 13:30 What you make available in the playroom is a message to kids on where you're willing to go 15:40  "Knowing" and "investigating" on your part aren't important - allow the process to unfold on its own 17:00 Addressing these issues in adolescence 17:15 The gender abacus 20:15 How can you help create the resources that are needed? 20:30 Working with parents 21:30 How can you avoid assumptions and diversify your thoughts? 23:15 What happens when the parent or parents struggle? 24:10 Why is timing between you and your client so important? 26:00 Acknowledging where the parents are in the process 27:00 Serving as a model for the parent 28:05 Kids are colorful - embrace that color in them and in yourself * If you enjoy this podcast, please give us a five-star rating and review on Apple Podcast, subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts, and invite your friends/fellow colleagues to join us.  *

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