Dj & Alanna give their opinion on several sex topics from bodily fluid to sex workers.

Dj & Alanna are back after a much needed break due to every day life. This episode is a discussion of the events that led to a move to Mississippi, the development of their relationship, and the experiences in between the last podcast. The couple provides examples from their relationship on what works and doesn’t.

This episode talks about what’s important for a relationship and unpacks some toxic relationship behaviors. DJ and Alanna mention some social media topics on cheating, dates for meals, and women who don’t have their priorities in order.

This episode will discuss the trauma and abuse that POC have endured during their childhood and basically how they turn into the Erykah Badu song- Bag Lady. But on a serious note, this episode will be discussing how our own personal trauma has impacted our life and decisions moving forward. We will work on discussing how trauma really affects the black community and specifically, black men as they try to mature into a man. The episode will focus on the way black men maneuver in society due to their past trauma in childhood and how they are or aren’t taught to deal with their emotions/feelings.

As a woman, have you ever felt uncomfortable around a man? Have you ever been out in public and followed by a man? This episode gets into a personal account of Alanna’s experience with a stalker at the gym. This episode is a means to open the dialogue about the discomfort women feel when out in public spaces because men have rapey behaviors and tendencies. Like why are men even ?

Do you remember the first time you ever did something you were afraid of? The rush of adrenaline flowing through your body as you get closer in line for your first roller coaster. The way your heart skipped a beat when you picked your crush up on your first date. The first time doing something is always the most significant and memorable moment of our lives. We tend to remember those moments forever. Do you remember your first time?

What does it mean to be an adult? Do you turn eighteen and all of a sudden you know everything? Are you still doing the things you did when you turned eighteen? Hopefully not. Becoming an adult is learning how past behaviors impacted your future positively or negatively and changing whatever you need to. Adulting is hard and takes 50 plus years of practice but we’re already ready to retire in our 20’s. This week’s episode is here to address this so you don’t get burnt the fuck out trying to adult and take care of your mental health and well being at the same time. DJ and I will discuss tips and tricks on how to maintain your sanity as an adult.

#Adulting aims to bring light to the pangs of adult life from different perspectives from both genders.

When will men shut the hell up about women's business? Tune into #Adulting first podcast with DJ and Alanna with a discussion of men being in woman's business 24/7.

Have you ever fantasized about having a threesome with your sexual partner? Statistics show that 95% of men and 87% of women state they have fantasized about sex with multiple partners. Although both genders have fantasized about threesomes, there are different stigmas behind women wanting a threesome with two men and men wanting a threesome with two women. Why is having sex with two women widely known as a threesome but having sex with two men is considered a train? We will discuss multiple gender differences throughout this podcast and include historical viewpoints as a means to discuss our society and the culture behind sex and power.