Let is full of unforeseen circumstances. Everything that we encounter it's a meaning behind it. The most important thing is not holding on to things that are wearing you down. Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing the monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward. I want to encourage you to use life as a lesson, not as a curse. Be careful as to what you allow to occupy your mind. Is it building you up or tearing you down. Let it go!