As we continually discuss dating and relationships in the new season of “Between the Sheets” our next topic is about where we are with the climate of chivalry. There is a place where we evolve from girls/boys to ladies/gentlemen. We must remember that chivalry is more about simply having manners. Where are you are manners in this season?

chivalry is — a choice. The choice to do the right things, for the right reasons, at the right times.”

Ernest Moore is the creative founder of Future Gents Org.

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Chivalry isn’t about knowing how to just “SMASH”, but more honestly about learning the benefits of growing to understand how to be ladies and gentlemen.

Things to think about:

He has a plan in place.

What is his attire beyond your everyday casual?

Advice for men: Know yourself first

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Do you really understand what real love is? Let’s be honest we are so conditional as people to even say we know what real love looks like. Yet, shout out to Mary J for giving a good song to jam to.

It all started for me when I evaluated if I was a loving person. Insert yourself into those scriptures and see if there are some areas you need to work on. Try it:

[Insert your name] is patient, love is kind. [Insert your name] does not envy, [Insert your name] does not boast, [Insert your name] is not proud. 5 [Insert your name] does not dishonor others, [Insert your name] is not self-seeking, [Insert your name] is not easily angered, [Insert your name] keeps no record of wrongs. 6 [Insert your name] does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 [Insert your name] always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Comment and tell me your truth, where are you in this love equation?

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We are the BLIC Society (Bring Light in Conversation) formerly known as She’s Inspired: The Society

New Season: Between the Sheets – regarding love and relationships

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Inspire Me Corner: “Love is the only force capable of turning an enemy into a friend” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Don’t be stagnant, you still have time 2020 is not over. It is time to start manifesting the things you truly desire. This is my season. Whatever I believe I should receive.

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She’s Inspired Mentorship Program

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Inspire Me Corner: “Being single isn’t the cause of loneliness, and marriage is not the cure. There are many lonely married people as well” – Unknown

Singleness does not mean you are lonely. For so many, we have yet to master being okay with ourselves. In this episode that I am honest with you my listeners about my own struggle with being with myself.

Loneliness is a mental or emotional phenomenon that has at its base a powerful emotion. Many find loneliness from abandonment, if only for a short time. Whenever we are reminded of that feeling we get a twinge of that distress and now we confuse it with abandonment or loss.

Things to consider:

Reach out. Withdrawing yourself is how you fall into a deep depression. Find accountability or therapy.

Notice your thoughts. Take note of the moments that cause you to feel the way you during those moments.

Focus on the needs and feelings of others. Being engaged with your friends helps build strong emotional bonds to keep you from being isolated.

Coming Soon:

Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020

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Inspire Me Corner: “Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fence, penetrates walls to arrive at its destinations full of hope” – Mary Angelou

This is definitely a hard topic to discuss because many of us try our best to operate in the realm of spirituality. I took the time out to sit down with my ex co-worker, newfound to talk about his upcoming entrepreneur endeavors.

Meet Eric Webb a.k.a Pharaoh Webb, the artist and Head Matchmaker of LGBT Love Service. We talked about love in its healthiest form. Pharaoh has created a match making service geared toward healing and creating love for real.

Connecting with Pharaoh the Artist:

https://instabio.cc/20827do90YU

Coming Soon:

Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020

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Episode 12- Love Notes: Power Couple… To Be or Not

About this Episode

Inspire Me Corner: “A Man with Dream NEEDs a Woman with vision. – source unknown

In a recent conversation, a male argued that there is no such thing as Power Couples. He stated that women could not walk equally to their mate, and while fixing his tie he quotes the man is head and the woman must submit.

Do you believe in a power couple?

What is a power couple?

The Urban Dictionary says, “In a power couple if one person is flawed, the other person makes up for their weaknesses in strength. Together they are the epitome of what anyone would desire in a relationship. They encourage goodness in the world and make it a better place by being together.”

Being a power couple isn’t just about good looks, wealth, and career success. It’s about having a teammate mindset—a “we” instead of a “me” mentality, which enables you to create a strong foundation.

Coming Soon:

Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020

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Episode 12 - Love Notes Series: Living Single

Inspire Me Corner: “What comes easy won’t last, but what lasts won’t come easy ” – Anonymous

Guest: Taneya Pair

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Guest: Jay Fuller

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Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020

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Inspire Me Corner: “Single is an opportunity to live on your terms and not apologize” – Mandy Hale  

Guest: Taneya Pair 

Taneya Pair is a native of Washington DC.  Throughout her journeys in life, Taneya discovered her passion for helping others facing challenging times in their lives.  Instead of looking at her past as a negative and remaining in the problems, Taneya pursued a positive solution that changed her outlook on life which allowed her the opportunities to empower others.  

In pursuing her passion, Taneya graduated with her Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Trinity Washington University and remains an advocate for Spiritual, Emotional and Mental Health Awareness. Taneya is also currently studying for her Masters In Divinity with a concentration in Pastoral Counseling.  

Taneya is an author, Owner of Cherish handmade Jewelry, Cherish the Collection, Member of Federal Women’s Program, Founder of Victorious Over Depression Support Group. Taneya has been trained in discipleship studies.  She brings with her a number of gifts and knowledge that will impact the life of others.  She currently enjoys serving at Heritage Church International under the direction of Bishop RS Walker and within the community in various capacities. 

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Guest: Jay Fuller 

Jay Fuller is a Freelance Writer, Public Speaker, and Financial advisor who helps finance professionals and Business startups to build an audience and get more paying clients online.

Before starting a writing business, Jay spent six years as an Engineer and Financial advisor for financial companies in the U.S. After a successful career helping small business and real estate agencies, Jay now helps them write marketing copy for their products and services. 

Jay enjoys traveling (Houston, anyone?) and managing a small property rental business.

Jay’s available for marketing and writing projects, as well as private consultations. You can reach Jay at [email protected].

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Coming Soon: 

Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020

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Inspire Me Corner: “We Accept the Love We Think We Deserve” – Stephen Chbosky

Excerpt From “Love Notes” Journal Book:

There was a time when I would allow God full control in every area of my life, except when it concerned my relationships. I reasoned with myself that surely, I am capable of deciding when the relationship was suitable. But it’s now more than ever that I realize I must give God full control over even my intimate situations. So, until then I'll wait for His (God) direction.

#DearFutureHusband

My choices are not always God’s best; therefore, I am releasing control so that I can receive the best.

Do you really involve GOD?

Don’t give lifetime expectations with someone who is really an assignment.

Coming Soon:

Love Notes (The Healing Journey) – September 2020

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