Let's Talk About Fostering

In this episode of Let's Talk About Fostering, Faye speaks to Tim, a foster carer who has experienced both fostering and adoption first hand.

Tim shares how he and his wife started fostering, how they unexpectedly adopted a child they were fostering, and the key differences between fostering and adoption, including permanence, support, finances and family life.

Whether you're considering fostering, adoption, or simply want to understand the difference, this episode offers honest insights, practical advice and real-life experiences.

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What is it really like to foster a baby or toddler? In this episode of Let's Talk About Fostering, Faye speaks with experienced foster carer Jamila, who has been fostering with FCA for six years. Together, they explore the realities of caring for babies and young children in foster care, from newborns and toddlers to sibling groups.

While many people begin their fostering journey with the idea of fostering a baby, the reality is that children under one make up only a small percentage of those in care. Jamila shares her first-hand experiences of caring for babies and toddlers, discussing both the joys and challenges that come with fostering very young children.

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What is it really like fostering as a family? In this episode of Let's Talk About Fostering, Faye speaks to foster carers Rachel and Amie about how fostering affects the whole family, from birth children and siblings to grandparents and extended family.

They discuss preparing children for fostering, balancing family life, supporting birth children, and why a strong support network is essential for foster carers.

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What is faith-based fostering in the UK? In this episode of Let’s Talk About Fostering, host Faye speaks to Ruth about her fostering journey, faith, and supporting children in care.

Ruth shares how she became a foster carer through her church, how faith shapes her approach, and what children in care really need to feel safe, supported and loved.

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Why is matching so important in fostering?

In this episode of Let’s Talk About Fostering, Nikita from ACS shares why finding the right foster family for a child or young person matters so much. Drawing on both her professional role as a referrals officer and her own lived experience of growing up in care, Nikita explains how foster care matching works, why stability matters, and why faith, culture, identity and belonging should never be overlooked.

This episode explores the fostering referral process, placement matching, placement stability, cultural matching, and the importance of listening to children and young people in care.

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What happens at a fostering panel and how do you become an approved foster carer?

In this episode of the Let's Talk About Fostering podcast, we speak to Jan Widowen, who is retiring after 20 years as a fostering panel administrator at Fostering People. Jan shares insights into how the fostering panel works, what applicants can expect, and why the assessment process is so important when approving foster carers.

If you're thinking about becoming a foster carer, this episode explains what happens behind the scenes and why the panel process is such an important step in the fostering journey.

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What does it really mean to be a man in fostering?

In this episode of Let’s Talk About Fostering, host Faye chats to foster dad Phil, who fosters with his wife Leanne and their three daughters for Clifford House.

Phil opens up about challenging gender stereotypes, being a hands-on dad, why vulnerability matters, and the huge impact a positive male role model can have on children in care – especially those who may never have had one before.

He also shares honest reflections on welcoming their first foster child, balancing the needs of birth and foster children, and why men (including single men) have so much to offer in fostering.

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Faye and FCA foster parent Claudia break down different types of fostering – from long-term and “staying put” to parent and child and siblings – and how to find the right fit for your family.

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to fostering.

In this episode of Let’s Talk About Fostering from the Polaris Community, host Faye sits down with foster parent Claudia from Foster Care Associates (FCA) in Oxfordshire. Claudia lives with her husband, their birth daughter and four foster children – and has years of experience with different types of fostering.

Together, they explore:

- What long-term, short-term and respite fostering actually mean

- How “staying put” works when a young person turns 18 – and why it can be life-changing

- What parent and child fostering is, and how it helps keep families together

- Why some siblings are fostered together – and why sometimes they shouldn’t be

- Fostering children from different racial and cultural backgrounds

- The importance of identity, culture and belonging for children in care

- Claudia’s most powerful fostering moments – from a driving test pass to a “non-verbal” child finding his voice

Claudia also shares:

- How her own cultural background shaped the way she supports parents and children

- Why staying put can give care-experienced young people a fairer start in adult life

- What makes parent and child fostering so rewarding – and how it can change whole family trees for generations

- If you’re wondering which type of fostering might be right for you and your family, this episode is a great place to start.

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In this episode of Let’s Talk About Fostering, Faye chats to married couple Andy and Mike, who foster with therapeutic fostering agency ISP in the Midlands.

They share their journey from first conversations about starting a family to becoming full-time foster parents to two amazing 13-year-olds.

In this episode, we cover:

- Why Andy and Mike chose fostering to grow their family

- What children in care may have been through – and why that matters

- What therapeutic fostering is (and how it differs from “traditional” parenting)

- The reality of the assessment and life-story process

- How being a same-sex couple was received in the fostering community

- Working alongside fostering, then moving into full-time fostering

- Supporting children with additional needs and autism

- Building a sibling-like bond between two unrelated children

- Involving birth families and keeping relationships positive

- Why you don’t need previous parenting experience to foster

- The truth about money, fostering allowances and mortgages

- Quickfire FAQs: working, renting, being single, having your own children, being LGBTQ+

- Favourite fostering moments that remind them “this is why we do it”

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In this episode, we explore how foster parents strengthen communities, support children, and work closely with local services to create lasting change.

We sit down with Theresa, a foster parent from Fosterplus in Gloucestershire and Jim, who is responsible for a number of our individual fostering agencies here at Polaris. We will explore how foster parents help shape stronger, safer, and more supportive communities across the UK.

From building trust with birth families to navigating complex care needs, this conversation highlights the real experiences and incredible impact foster parents make every day.

What we cover:

- How foster carers support wider communities

- Why collaboration with professionals is essential

- The challenges and rewards of long-term care

- Practical advice for future foster parents

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