What if leadership wasn’t a title—but a test of who you are when everything’s stacked against you?

In this deeply personal episode of Stress Smarts with Colonel Deb, I share my own journey of leadership—from the early days at West Point when I was told I didn’t belong, to the hard-won lessons that came from serving with and learning from incredible people in uniform and beyond.

You’ll hear stories that reveal what real leadership looks like under pressure—why it’s not about shouting, rank, or looking the part, but about showing up with empathy, integrity, and consistency.

I’ll also share my D.E.B. tool, a simple but powerful framework to help you lead with purpose and heart:

💡 Key Takeaways

• D – Dig Deeper Than the Surface – Look past appearances; leadership is about principle, not polish.
• E – Empathy is a Leadership Essential – Understand that everyone is being tested in ways you can’t see.
• B – Build Others Up – Real leaders don’t just shine; they ignite the light in others. 

Leadership isn’t about power—it’s about possibility. Let’s talk about how to rise stronger, serve better, and lead with love in every part of life.

These episodes are adapted from my live Facebook series, Let’s Talk About…, where I share real tools for rising stronger. You can also watch the video versions on my Stress Intelligence YouTube channel (www.YouTube.com/@StressIntelligence).

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