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Relationships come in all forms—family, friends, teammates, coworkers, and partners—and every one of them is an experiment. Each interaction teaches us how to connect better, communicate clearly, and care more deeply.
In this insightful episode of Stress Smarts with Colonel Deb, I’m joined by my husband, LTC Doug Adams, to explore what we’ve learned from 26+ years together—through deployments, caregiving, and 18,000+ miles cycling for Veterans. Together we share how to strengthen all types of relationships by treating them like living, learning experiments instead of impossible perfection tests.
You’ll also hear about our i.L.A.B. tool to help you build, test, and nurture relationships that last. (The little i—Doug’s idea—stands for intimacy, like iPhone, but here it’s about connection and understanding.)
Key Takeaways
i.L.A.B. (intimacy, Lead with Love, be Authentic, Bounce Back Fast)
Strong relationships aren’t perfect—they’re practiced. Let’s talk about how to grow yours with care, curiosity, and Stress Intelligence™.
These episodes are adapted from my live Facebook series, Let’s Talk About…, where I share real tools for rising stronger. You can also watch the video versions on my Stress Intelligence YouTube channel (www.YouTube.com/@StressIntelligence).
✅ Subscribe to the Stress Smarts Podcast for weekly tools that help you:
🌐 Explore more at MentallyToughWomen.com
For Stress Intelligence™ tools, courses, and coaching for purpose-driven women ready to lead and thrive.
📺 Watch video versions on my Stress Intelligence YouTube channel (www.YouTube.com/@StressIntelligence)
🔗 Connect on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/MentallyToughWomen
By Colonel Deb LewisRelationships come in all forms—family, friends, teammates, coworkers, and partners—and every one of them is an experiment. Each interaction teaches us how to connect better, communicate clearly, and care more deeply.
In this insightful episode of Stress Smarts with Colonel Deb, I’m joined by my husband, LTC Doug Adams, to explore what we’ve learned from 26+ years together—through deployments, caregiving, and 18,000+ miles cycling for Veterans. Together we share how to strengthen all types of relationships by treating them like living, learning experiments instead of impossible perfection tests.
You’ll also hear about our i.L.A.B. tool to help you build, test, and nurture relationships that last. (The little i—Doug’s idea—stands for intimacy, like iPhone, but here it’s about connection and understanding.)
Key Takeaways
i.L.A.B. (intimacy, Lead with Love, be Authentic, Bounce Back Fast)
Strong relationships aren’t perfect—they’re practiced. Let’s talk about how to grow yours with care, curiosity, and Stress Intelligence™.
These episodes are adapted from my live Facebook series, Let’s Talk About…, where I share real tools for rising stronger. You can also watch the video versions on my Stress Intelligence YouTube channel (www.YouTube.com/@StressIntelligence).
✅ Subscribe to the Stress Smarts Podcast for weekly tools that help you:
🌐 Explore more at MentallyToughWomen.com
For Stress Intelligence™ tools, courses, and coaching for purpose-driven women ready to lead and thrive.
📺 Watch video versions on my Stress Intelligence YouTube channel (www.YouTube.com/@StressIntelligence)
🔗 Connect on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/MentallyToughWomen