Every point in your life that seems like a detour, is actually leading you along a path to your wildest dreams. Every step along the way is a guidepost to your own nirvana, and every ounce of your heart that gets hollowed out by wrenching pain is making a receptacle for awaiting joy. There are no real mistakes, there are only necessary discoveries. Dark places we wander into to induce us to reach for light. One day you will thank heaven for this marriage and the universe of understanding it will open to you.