What if growth isn’t about trying harder? In this episode of Inference & Incense, we talk about letting go—not in the dramatic, burn-your-life-down way, but in the quieter, messier way that actually creates room to grow.

We share stories from our lives as Asian immigrants and women in tech. Along the way, we unpack why letting go feels so hard (ego, fear, sunk costs, cultural conditioning), how modern life keeps us stuck in outdated patterns. If you’ve ever felt tired of holding everything together—or secretly excited by the idea of starting fresh—this one’s for you.