Your kids are adults now.
That sounds simple enough. Until they need money. Advice. A place to live. Help fixing another problem. Or all four at the same time.
In Episode 4 of Life After the Nest, I’m talking about one of the harder parts of parenting adult children. How do you stay supportive without continuing to run their lives?
Where do you draw the line between helping and rescuing?
We talk about adult kids moving back home, lending money, giving advice they did not ask for, setting boundaries, and learning when to say no.
We also get into something parents sometimes forget. You still have a life too.
Your marriage matters. Your retirement matters. Your travel plans matter. Your finances matter.
You can love your kids, support them, and be there when they truly need you without organizing your entire life around every problem they have.
The parenting job does not end when your kids grow up.
But the job does need to change.