In this episode, with guest Andy Coley, who is an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) trainer, shares their journey from a challenging period in their life to becoming an expert in NLP.

Relationship Revolutions is presented & hosted by Alan Watts - The Love Engineer.

Alan is a relationship & dating coach, working with divorcees and singles who have come out of a long term relationship, and would like to move forward in to a healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

Alan also works with couples in crisis to turn their relationship around and bring deeper connection, more passion, understanding and intimacy.

Alan can be found on all FB, Instagram, Ticktok and linked in.

Or email directly to [email protected]

Andy explains that NLP is the study of how the mind processes information, forms individual perceptions of the world, and expresses these through language, behaviors, and body language. They emphasise that NLP delves into the patterns and programs individuals develop in their lives, some of which are beneficial while others may be hindering.

Andy shares recounts their personal experience, describing a difficult period in their mid-30s after a failed marriage, significant weight gain, and emotional distress.

NLP played a crucial role in their self-discovery and transformation during this challenging time. They highlight the support of a friend who was an NLP master practitioner and coach, guiding them through reclaiming their identity and overcoming the negative narratives they had internalised.

The guest reflects on societal expectations, particularly regarding failure and divorce, and how these influenced their own perceptions. Andy & Alan discuss the societal pressure men face to remain in unhealthy relationships due to traditional roles as the "captain of the ship."

The conversation touches upon the transformative power of NLP, its impact on self-awareness, and the guest's transition from a career in web development to helping individuals reprogram themselves through NLP.

Alan and Andy also briefly discuss the concept that divorce, though initially perceived as a failure, can be a gift and a catalyst for personal growth. The guest shares insights into challenging societal norms and expectations around relationships, particularly for men.

Overall, the podcast segment highlights the Andy's personal journey with NLP, its profound impact on their life, and the broader societal perspectives on relationships and personal growth.

Andy Coley CTC Ltd
International NLP Trainer,

TEDx Speaker of the Year & Coach

07595 916617

Watch my TEDx talk at https://www.ted.com/talks/andy_coley_the_home_in_your_heart_making_home_the_strength_you_need

[email protected]

www.andycoley.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/andycoley/