As we continue to unpack "Resisting Happiness" we begin to look at how we get in our own way, and how to make sense of it all.  We need to understand life is messy.  No amount of planning, perfection, detailing, etc., can keep the "mess" from interrupting our lives.  So what mess are you trying to clean up?  What battle are you working through?  Answer the question... have you found the happiness you have so desperately been trying to find your whole life?  Sure, there are nuggets of happiness, but is happiness a constant in your life?  Is joy?  Something to consider.