Match Week is often portrayed as one of the most exciting and joyful moments in medical school but what happens when it doesn’t go according to plan?
In today's episode, I’m sitting down with my dear friend Tiana to talk about her family’s experience navigating the SOAP process after her husband didn’t initially match. We’re getting real about the uncertainty, disappointment, and emotional weight that comes with not knowing where your family will end up next.
Tiana opens up about what it was like to support her husband through one of the most difficult moments of his medical journey while also processing her own grief behind the scenes. We talk about what it means to be the spouse who is trying to stay strong, how SOAP works from a family’s perspective, and how to navigate the pressure of pursuing a highly competitive specialty.
But this story is about so much more than Match Week.
With four children and major decisions about their family's future, Tiana shares the realities of making sacrifices for medicine. Including the incredibly difficult decision to leave her older children behind during a recent move. We talk about motherhood, marriage, distance, grief, resilience, and finding hope when your carefully planned path suddenly changes.
If you’re a medical student, physician spouse, parent, or anyone navigating an unexpected chapter, I hope this episode reminds you that a different path doesn't mean a failed path.
I’m so glad you’re here 🫶🏻
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