Our guest this week is the thoughtful and wise-beyond-her-years, Lily, whose sexual debut with a genderqueer person (also named Lily!) opened her eyes to true intimacy and what a fun, safe, and caring first time can be. We also discuss the role of gender in sexual attraction, the wonders of oral pleasure, the frustration of knowing you're a sensual being with nowhere to put your desire, virginity as a heteronormative social construct, big Scorpio energy, and the road to self-acceptance. 

 

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