Closure is exactly what it is. It's closure. It's not wishful thinking. I sent Olga one last text and walked away.
I may have to run into her when I'm checking the group posts at IOP because the posting is in the patio where she sometimes still sits for her lunch.
But I am making a very big effort to do no contact from now on because of the way she acted last Thursday. That was the deal-breaker that was the last straw. That was the last reminder that I'm living in a fantasy. Time for me to face reality. She doesn't want me! Not even as a friend.
From now on I follow the heart advice for limerent sufferers: STOP TRYING TO BE FRIENDS WITH THEM. *NOW* !