List Me Tender

After a year hiatus, Daph and June return - this time to record their final episode. This project has been rewarding in many ways, and June and Daph reflect on what's been happening this past year, as well as what this podcast has meant to each of them.

Big hugs, and a huge thank you to everyone that listened to one, many, or all of the List Me Tender episodes over the last few years. Thank you to all of our lovely guests that chatted about (and changed our perspectives on) many different topics. So long, farewell!

Disclaimer: There are still two episodes that June has yet to edit, so sometime in the next little while they *may* be released. The topics are 'Find your Values', and 'Know your Body'.

Okay, bye for realsies 👋🏼🥲🥹🥹

>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do in you turn 30s. 👯‍♀️

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Have you ever taken a personality test? If so, did you think it was accurate? Are you an ENTP, or an ISFJ? Or maybe this combination of letters makes absolutely no sense to you (and you won't be placed neatly into a box of 16 types of people, thank you very much!)

Whether you love them or hate them, personality tests seem to be everywhere - providing a fun source of banter in the workplace and social settings alike. June and Daph discuss some of the most popular personality tests, and chat through whether or not they find them valuable.

Timestamps:

• 1:25 - Why do a personality test?
• 3:26 - Myers-Briggs
• 9:43 - Enneagram
• 14:00 - DiSC
• 20:30 - Love Languages
• 23:25 - Why you should take all of these with a grain of salt

>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do in you turn 30s. 👯‍♀️

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What stories did you grow up believing about money? Did your family instill any money values or narratives in you that you find hard to shake as an adult? Know you want to invest but stumped for how to get started? 💸💸💸

Daph and June are joined by millennial money coach Parween from The Wealthy Wolfe, who drops much needed wisdom about how to understand the emotions you have around money, how to get started with investing, and finally answering the question of whether or not it's the avocado toast that is holding our generation back from buying property (and whether we really need to).

Parween is a South Asian money expert on a mission to provide honest and relatable financial coaching for women of colour from immigrant upbringings through 1:1 coaching and mentoring. She built a net worth of $100,000 by the age of 26 and is on a mission to help other WOC overcome their financial traumas and build generational wealth.

Parween is the founder of the Wealthy Wolfe, holds the Accredited Financial Counselor - Canada® designation, and is a certified Trauma of Money Facilitator. Find Parween on Instagram @parween.mander.

Timestamps:

• 1:38 - Intro.
• 3:35 - Money trauma.
• 5:12 - Asian parents' money narratives.
• 7:41 - Investing tips.
• 11:09 - What is investing?
• 13:37 - Before investing check-list.
• 16:42 - What is my risk tolerance?
• 18:45 - Where to invest, TFSA vs RRSP (and super)?
• 21:52 - Get in touch with Parween.
• 24:49 - Rent vs buy.

>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do in you turn 30s. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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Do you consider yourself a power negotiator? Or do you often take the first offer you're provided, too worried to ask for what you want? Whether it's for your salary at a new job, landing that promotion, or buying a car, life is full of negotiation opportunities.

Our guest Rosemarie takes Daph and June through the basics of preparing for a negotiation, and imparts some quick tips for success. Rose shares her journey, navigating from being a nervous negotiator to now confident - even creating her own online course on the topic!

The book Rose mentions is Secrets of Power Negotiating: Inside Secrets from a Master Negotiator by Roger Dawson - read this for more great tips like the GASP one!

Timestamps:

• 2:16 - How do negotiations make you feel?
• 5:20 - What are the basics?
• 9:33 - Why should we learn how to negotiate?
• 11:27 - How to start a negotiation?
• 13:10 - Planning a negotiation.
• 20:28 - Quick tips for success!

>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do in you turn 30s. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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Lunar New Year is upon us 🍊!! Tune in as June and Daph share 5 fun facts of things to do (or not do!) as we welcome the Year of the Ox. 🐮 We dive into the similarities of Chinese v Korean New Year and discover the significance of this yearly event 🧧. From auspicious beliefs such as picking the right time to clean your house, to the symbolism of eating specific dishes that will (hopefully) ensure a year of good wealth, health and prosperity. ❤️

>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do in you turn 30s. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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Season 2 of List Me Tender is a wrap! How many listeners do you think they had per episode? And how much money did the ads bring in? And were they able to stay off their phones and limit screentime? Listen to find out!

The favourite episodes of the season were: 'Unplug' (ep 5), 'Take a Road Trip' (ep 4), and 'Side Gig to Main Gig' (ep 11). The most confronting episode for both Daph and June was 'Be Able To Ask For What You Want in Bed' (ep 7). The book Daph referenced is How to Break Up with Your Phone by Catherine Price.

The Hilaria Baldwin scandal that June mentioned is on this Instagram story. Tapper beware, June as lost hours of life on her phone due to this story to top off the wild year that was 2020.

>>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do before you turn 30. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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What does it take to transition your side hustle to your main gig? Is it perseverance? Is it passion? Is it patience?

In this episode, join Daph and June as we chat to Wendy on how she took a leap of faith from a steady 9-5 job to embark on her Youtube adventures. 10 years on, Wendy now shares her passion for sewing and teaches her subscribers - over ONE MILLION of them on how to make clothes and other DIY adventures. We cover topics about her decision on paving her own path, the loneliness entrepreneurs can face and the importance of self-care and being kind to yourself.

For all your DIY-adventures, check out her youtube channel WithWendy, on Instagram at @WithWendy as well as her recently launched podcast "Fortune Cookies with Wendy".

>>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do before you turn 30. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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In this episode, Daph and June are joined by Grace, who has rekindled her creativity through undertaking an inspiring sketching project: Minjin Sketches (@minjinsketches). ✨

Initially, sketching was something Grace started as a way to be present. She wanted to curb the growing anxiety she faced being a Canadian transplant in London with zero contacts and no job - all amidst a global pandemic. More than half a year later, these sketches have become a meditative practice that she incorporates into her everyday life. Listen as she unpacks what creativity means for her, how she stays focused on the process rather than the outcome, and how both her childhood and career have contributed to this journey.

>>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do before you turn 30. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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Daph and June recount the heartbreak they experienced in their 20s, and how that shaped the people they are today. Alfred Lord Tennyson has said "'tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all". Do they agree? Listen to find out!

Daph referenced the School of Life resources on breaking up and heartbreak, and June referenced Antonio Pascual-Leone's TED Talk on How to get over the end of a relationship.

>>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do before you turn 30. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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What counts as fancy dining? Are you a fine diner? June and Daph's friend Nadia (@nadswithboys) shares some of the most elaborate and memorable fine dining experiences she's had as they debate what makes fine dining worth it - is it the food or the experience? Nadia mentions the Fat Duck, which closed in Melbourne but continues in the UK, Daph mentions Sepia in Sydney, and June mentions Blue Hill in NYC.

>>> Join two Sydney-sider, long-time friends, and thirty-somethings, June and Daph, as they delve into “bucket list” items to do before you turn 30. 👯‍♀️

>>> Have feedback, comments or just want to keep in touch between episodes? Follow us on Instagram @listmetender 🌚

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