Your relationship with yourself predicts your relationship with the world. Release your need for complexity and immerse in stillness. Remember peace and stillness is required for growth. The flower does not try to survive winter. It changes,tumbles and retreats so that when springtime reigns ,it may bloom once again. My mother very often says to me “The problem is that you listen to every one but ignore the voice of your own heart. Your time is more valuable than to always show up for situations and people that leave you feeling drained. Your worth is not defined by other peoples perception of you. You need to learn to move on. You do not need to be validated by others. You matter and your mental state maters the most”. When you start taking care of yourself you start to feel better,you look better and you attract better. You become the magnet of the positive energy. You are your best friend,may be the long lost one …. Go and find yourself.