Greg decides to zig from his most recent line of discussion partly inspired by some new clients seeking relationship counseling. He shares that we don't just learn how to cope and react based on past experiences, we learn how to listen and react as well which places us squarely back in autopilot and avoidance mode. Greg talks about active listening, being vulnerable, and how important it is that our partners FEEL heard. Next week Greg will talk about the steps to be a better active listener.