When people talk to you or you read a piece from them, do you really listen and hear what is really being said or do you pretend to be listening just to get the person off your back? Many have died by suicide or are living but dead inside because no one really carried or listened to what is really happening but critical. Stop it! The shoes might to the other foot! Be careful! If you are the one at the receiving end and behaving you are presently, will like it? Can you cope?