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Listening is the first step in healing.
Welcome to this episode of the Choosing Help podcast with Dr. Tracy Stecker and Dr. Lisham Ashrafioun, where we dive deep into the art of active listening—an essential skill for meaningful connection, especially in emotionally charged or difficult conversations. Although listening may seem simple because we do it every day, being a truly effective listener requires intentional effort and practice.
In this episode, we break down the three critical steps of active listening that engage three different “organs” to ensure you truly hear and understand the other person:
Use Your Ears: The first step is to genuinely hear the words being spoken without interrupting or jumping to conclusions. This means focusing your attention fully on the speaker and tuning out distractions.
Use Your Brain: Next, process the information thoughtfully. Reflect on what the person is saying, consider their emotions and underlying messages, and avoid immediately reacting with your own judgments or assumptions.
Use Your Mouth: Finally, communicate back what you heard by paraphrasing, checking for clarity, and asking gentle questions. This step slows down the conversation, confirms understanding, and invites the speaker to elaborate or correct if needed.
The hosts share real-world examples, such as a child refusing to go to school or a veteran struggling with PTSD, illustrating how active listening can open pathways for empathy, reduce conflict, and support healing. They emphasize the importance of resisting the urge to respond with advice or solutions too quickly and instead offering space for the speaker to process their feelings.
Tune in to learn how slowing down, engaging all three steps, and responding thoughtfully can transform your conversations and relationships. Whether you’re supporting a loved one or navigating tough discussions, mastering active listening powers you to connect with compassion and courage.
Join us to explore how choosing to truly listen can change everything, because when we choose help, we choose life. For additional resources, visit choosinghelp.com.
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By Hatherleigh Behavioral HealthWelcome to this episode of the Choosing Help podcast with Dr. Tracy Stecker and Dr. Lisham Ashrafioun, where we dive deep into the art of active listening—an essential skill for meaningful connection, especially in emotionally charged or difficult conversations. Although listening may seem simple because we do it every day, being a truly effective listener requires intentional effort and practice.
In this episode, we break down the three critical steps of active listening that engage three different “organs” to ensure you truly hear and understand the other person:
Use Your Ears: The first step is to genuinely hear the words being spoken without interrupting or jumping to conclusions. This means focusing your attention fully on the speaker and tuning out distractions.
Use Your Brain: Next, process the information thoughtfully. Reflect on what the person is saying, consider their emotions and underlying messages, and avoid immediately reacting with your own judgments or assumptions.
Use Your Mouth: Finally, communicate back what you heard by paraphrasing, checking for clarity, and asking gentle questions. This step slows down the conversation, confirms understanding, and invites the speaker to elaborate or correct if needed.
The hosts share real-world examples, such as a child refusing to go to school or a veteran struggling with PTSD, illustrating how active listening can open pathways for empathy, reduce conflict, and support healing. They emphasize the importance of resisting the urge to respond with advice or solutions too quickly and instead offering space for the speaker to process their feelings.
Tune in to learn how slowing down, engaging all three steps, and responding thoughtfully can transform your conversations and relationships. Whether you’re supporting a loved one or navigating tough discussions, mastering active listening powers you to connect with compassion and courage.
Join us to explore how choosing to truly listen can change everything, because when we choose help, we choose life. For additional resources, visit choosinghelp.com.