Thinking too much about our past...our mistakes, robs us of the now..today. We are all a work in progress, nobody is perfect but spending all your time in the what it's, if I'd only done this or NOT done this...will rob every opportunity you have to enjoy what's now. Make amends with what's past, learn to forgive yourself. If we don't...5 years down the line we will be thinking the same thing about these days. Life is short...learn to appreciate it's value now. Find another Way!