🌟 Parenting Culture is a space that encourages us to slow down to focus on that which is important.

Here is a recap of what was shared:

• 🌿 Ancient Wisdom -
  • 😤 Indra, a symbol of arrogance, lost his powers after insulting Rishi Durvasa.
  • 🙏 Seeking help from Sri Narayana, he followed His advice.
  • 🌊 During the churning of the Milky Ocean, he recovered his strength by obtaining the nectar of immortality. 🍯
  • ⏳ Patience and generosity lead to incredible rewards, like the Amrita or fearlessness.🎁
• For us as caregivers:
  • 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Reflect on utility as happiness is essential.
  • 😔 Worry can dampen joy despite successes.
  • 🌟 Define success by utility, not possessions, position or pleasures.
  • 📝 Writing about feelings on successes and failures brings clarity about what is truly important.
• For those we care:
  • 👶 Nurture selflessness or being large-hearted
  • 😌 Foster meaningful success by balancing comfort and discomfort.
  • 💪 Overemphasizing comfort can lead to selfishness, while exposure to struggle fosters empathy.
  • 😔 Endure complaints and tears.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🌟 Caregiving and parenting are opportunities for growth and understanding.

🌱 Ancient wisdom offers solutions by turning challenges into training 🧠, encouraging patience, discipline, and acceptance 🙏, making parenting a journey of personal development 🚀.

🌿 Review of Parenting challenges with a practice for each - 
1. Finding Balance - Wake Early 🌅
Sleep early to wake early and be ready for your responsibilities.

2. Self Care - Embrace Discomfort 💪
Embrace discomfort to focus on mental strength over physical comfort.

3. Family Communication - Journal Together 📓
Learn to communicate with yourself before others. Journal together as a family.

4. Sibling Relationships - Give Time ⏳
Spend time with your generation and each child individually through walks, games, or dates.

5. Learning Responsibility - Simplify Part 🧩
Simplify roles within the family. Introduce simple responsibilities to build confidence.

6. Screen Time - Schedule Nature 🌳
Encourage nature activities to balance screen time.

7. Instilling Values - Follow Through 🏅
Demonstrate values through actions, not just words.

8. Life Skills - Analyze Growth 📈
Regularly evaluate the development of your value system.

9. Well Being - Eat Healthy 🥗
Eating healthy promotes overall well-being, including mental and physical health.

10. Peer Pressure - Create Circles 🔄
Form positive peer groups that encourage and uplift.

11. Managing Emotions - Design Routines 📅
Establish routines to maintain emotional balance.

12. Educational Expectations - Set Parameters 🎓
Set clear functional goals for caregivers and minimum time or exposure to fundamentals for children.

13. Defining Success - Remember Ends 😊
True success is being happy.

14. Parenting Styles - Evolve Relationships 🔄
Adapt your relationship style as children grow, from confidence-building to friendship.

15. Time Management - Utilize Planners 📆
Use planners to manage time effectively.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

​🎓Recap (May 6, 2024)

🌟 Parenting Culture is a space to prepare and center ourselves so our challenges seem less daunting. 

🌿 Ancient Wisdom -

• 📚 In the Narada Bhakti Sutra, Rishi Narada elucidates - “Be patient until you're ready to let go of worldly attachments, material pursuits and don't waste any time in doing so
• ⏳ For a devoted caregiver, waiting for the perfect time is unproductive, as ideal circumstances rarely arise, leading to wasted time and potential setbacks.   
• ⏰ Remember the principle: "When money is lost, nothing is lost; when time is lost, something is lost."
• 3 practices on time management so we are ready for the demands on our time:
  • 🧹 Unitask routines for efficiency and focus.
  • 📅 Utilize planners consistently for organization. Involve children to instill responsibility.
  • 🚀 Undertake more activities and service to improve time management and decision-making skills. Time is utilized and prioritization becomes natural.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🌟 Parenting Culture is a space of inspiration and rejuvenation.

Here is a recap of what was shared:

• ✨Success should be measured by - 
  • Utility (peace and happiness) and legacy (the lasting impact and impression the child leaves)
  • Agility (maintaining balance while moving between responsibilities and relationships ) and not Anxiety due to imbalance

🌿 Ancient Wisdom  for Parenting Styles

• 📚 Kautilya, or Chanakya, born in Takshashila 2500 years ago, authored the Artha Shastra (Economics and Political science) 📚, and mentored Chandragupta, transforming him into a ruler of the Maurya empire 👑.
• 🧒He advised nurturing children until age 5, providing guidance until they were 15, and treating them as friends after 16 👫.   

For children ages 0-5 - Confidence is key! 🔝

As caregivers: 

• 💖 Instill confidence through love.
•  👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Stay active with the child, taking turns between parents to ensure engagement.

As the cared:

• 🏃‍♂️Prioritize love, activity, and confidence-building.
• 🌱 Embrace play with minimal toys and treats to encourage creativity and independence. 
   

For children ages 6-15 - Give them direction! 👉 

As caregivers: 

• 🤗 Be available for the child.
• 🚶‍♂️Demonstrate through lifestyle how to live.

As the cared:

• ⚖️ Understand their role in family, home, society, and learn about the law of Karma: privileges come with responsibilities.
• 📊 Help visualize responsibilities by charting them out.

For children ages 15 and up - Be their friend! 👫

As caregivers: 

• 🌟 Support kids’ passions and encourage their interests by listening more and advising less.
• ⚔️ Choose battles wisely by prioritizing what truly matters, letting go of minor issues for a more harmonious relationship.

As the cared:

• 💭 Encourage thoughtfulness in teenagers by prioritizing long-term happiness and positive interactions.
• 🤝 Practicing unified parenting by adopting PLEA: Praying, Leading, Engaging, and Accepting to maintain consistency between differing styles.
• Keep conflicts private for younger kids and expose teens to differences to foster coping skills and understanding.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🌟 Parenting Culture is a space of inspiration and rejuvenation.

Here is a recap of what was shared:

✨Success should be measured by - 

• Utility (peace and happiness) and legacy (the lasting impact and impression the child leaves)
• Agility (maintaining balance while moving between responsibilities and relationships ) and not Anxiety due to imbalance
   
• 🌿 Ancient Wisdom -
  • 📚 Kautilya, or Chanakya, born in Takshashila 2500 years ago, authored the Artha Shastra (Economics and Political science), and mentored Chandragupta, transforming him into a ruler of the Maurya empire 👑.
  • 🧒He advised nurturing children until age 5, providing guidance until they were 15, and treating them as friends after 16 👫.   
     
  • For children ages 0-5 - Confidence is key!
    As caregivers: 
    💖 Instill confidence through love.
    👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Stay active with the child, taking turns between parents to ensure engagement.
    
    As cared:
    🏃‍♂️Prioritize love, activity, and confidence-building.
    🌱 Embrace play with minimal toys and treats to encourage creativity and independence.
     
  • For children ages 6-15 - Give them direction!
    As caregivers: 
    🤗 Be available for the child.
    🚶‍♂️Demonstrate through lifestyle how to live. 
    
    As cared: 
    ⚖️ Understand their role in family, home, society, and learn about the law of Karma: privileges come with responsibilities.
    📊 Help visualize responsibilities by charting them out.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🎓Recap (April 8, 2024)
🌟 Self-care reflects care for others. 

Here is a recap of what was shared:

• Reviewing Managing Emotions - 
  • 💭 Undirected thoughts cause stress, while directed thinking promotes calmness.☀️ 
  • 😌 Manage emotions to avoid becoming moody.
  • 🙏 Navigate generational differences with PLEAD: Pray, Lead, Engage, Accept, and Depart if needed to avoid toxic relationships.
• Education Expectations - 
  • 🌿 Ancient Wisdom - 
    • 🕉️ In Srimad Bhagavatam, Sri Krishna (who is Yogeshwara - Master of Yogas) learns self-love and joy at Rishi Sandeepany’s Gurukula. He embodies joy, setting a precedent for us.
    •  📖 In the Bhagavad Gita, Sri Krishna says - "Sattva Sanjayate Jnanam" - from quietude arises knowledge.
    • 📚  Education fosters quietness (sattva); everything else is mere information.
• For us as caregivers: 
  • 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Prioritize purpose, faith, and joy actively. Distinguish between engaging with fundamentals and being busy with mere information. 
  • 🛑 Put parameters on the functional to balance between the fundamental and functional. 
• For those we care:
  • 👶 Clarify if you prioritize nurturing goodness or intelligence in your child. Emphasize values and morals for long-term development. 
  • 📚 Teach children to fulfill responsibilities before recreation without negotiation to avoid compromise.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🎓Recap (April 1, 2024)
🌟 Shift from succumbing to accepting, acknowledging that change is both possible and inevitable.

• Reviewing Peer pressure -
  • 🌿 Ancient Wisdom - 🌟 Story of Ajamila continues with him having a child with the prostitute and a Sadhu bestowing the name Narayana on Ajamila's unnamed child. In his final moments, calling out Narayana’s name rescued him.
  • 🙏 Naming articles, beings with divine names fosters remembrance of Bhagavan.
     
• Managing Emotions
  • 🌿 Ancient Wisdom - 🤔 Svayambhu Manu, contemplating his origins, faced an attack by the Rakshasas.
    • 🧘‍♂️ He maintained his focus, and was rescued by Sri Krishna who intervened and defeated them.
    • 💪 Mastery over his emotions led to meaning and success
  • 💭 Stress is just a thought, leading to exhaustion, frustration, and confusion.
    • Emotions like stress, anger, and fear stem from thoughts
    • ❌😌 If those thoughts are absent, so are the emotions.
• For us as caregivers:
  • 🕒 Establish a routine to regulate your day and boost physical, mental energy.
  • 🚶‍♂️KMF (Keep Moving Forward): Emotions are just thoughts; keep moving forward, despite others projecting their emotions onto you.
• For those we care for:
  • 🧒 Me Therapy: Teach children self-care practices, prioritizing time for themselves.
  • 👵 Mature Therapy: Seek guidance from mature individuals to manage emotions effectively. Trusted friends can provide relief. 🤝

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

🎓Recap (March 25, 2024)

🌟 Inclusive and generous people radiate happiness and spread joy. 
🌈 Openness ignites this happiness. 

Here is a recap of what was shared:

• 🌿 Ancient Wisdom from the Mahabharatha - 
  • 📚 The once virtuous and disciplined Ajamila, witnessed a man with a prostitute in the jungle, captivating his attention.
  •  🤔 Consumed by thoughts of them, he neglected his rituals and brought her home, leading to his own downfall. 
  • 📖 This tale emphasizes how negative influences affect choices and behavior.
•  💪 In modern life where there can be positive or negative peer pressure, negativity often dominates our experiences.
• 🌟 Our lives and relationships are custom designed for us. What others do is designed for them, not for us. 
• 👥 Avoid negative peer pressure, ignore neutral peer pressure, and seek noble peer pressure. 
  • 🌱Nobility humbles and inspires, making us aspire to the greatness of such people.
  • 💫Creating a "Sattvic Circle" - a supportive social circle promotes independence and quietness. Offer Support to one who lacks this to help prevent them from falling further due to negative peer pressure.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

​🎓Recap (March 11, 2024)

💖 Care-giving is the original vocation.

• 🕊️Well-being or Svasti, is symbolized by the Svastika and Bhagavathi Parvati serves as a reminder for engaging in well-being.
• 🌳 Being in nature promotes a healthy body; 
• 🧘‍♀️ Being natural and healing through solitude is effortless and promotes mental well-being.

Here is a recap of what was shared through the lens of the well-being of those we care for:

• 🌿 Ancient Wisdom - 
  • 🍚 Draupadi received the Akshaya Patra during the Pandavas' exile, providing unlimited food until she ate.
  • 🙏 Grateful for its sustenance in the jungle, she conversed with Bhagavan Sri Krishna regularly. 
  • 🍲 Once, after a meal, Krishna visited her. Despite feeling remorse for not having anything to offer Him, Krishna found a single grain of rice stuck to the pot, which he happily consumed.
  • 😊 This symbolized contentment even with a small offering resulting in universal happiness.
     
• 🍎Prioritize providing healthier food options, like fruits, for those we care for.
• 💬 Foster discussion-oriented homes for mental well-being.
• 🗣️ Regular discussions and family meetings strengthen relationships.
• 🌱 Svasti involves encouraging healthy habits and open communication, even outsourcing discussions when necessary.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

​🎓Recap (March 4, 2024)

💖 Caring for another connects them to the community; living similarly helps them enhance their  contribution positively.
🌱 Parenting Culture is like Community Service - we sow the seeds for the future generations.

Review of Parenting Modern Challenges and their Ancient Wisdom Visualizations -

1. Screen Time (podcast)

• 🐟 From the Mahabharata’s Yaksha Prashna - A fish symbolizes what sleeps with its eyes open.
• 📱 Practice: Implement designated screen time zones.
• 👨‍👧‍👦Observation: Caregivers often overlook the impact of their casual phone use on those they care for.

2. Instilling Values (podcast)

• 📖 From the Bhagavad Gita - Chapter 12, Verse 15 - Nodvijate refers to the one who does not annoy and isn't annoyed by others.
• 👨‍💼 Practice: Being responsible
• 👀 Observation: Being responsible prevents annoyance to others.

3. Life Skills (podcast)

• 📜 From our scriptures - Viveka (prioritization) , Vairagya (independence), Shat Sampathis which includes Mumukshutva (freedom) are crucial life skills.
• ​​🌟 Dhruva's story illustrates the pursuit of freedom guided by his mother, Suneeti, who encouraged him to seek beyond societal expectations. 
• 🙏 Practice: Setting up altars for cultivating these values, fostering a habit of inner reflection and connection with divinity.
• 🕊️Observation: this practice helps individuals, especially children, internalize the concept of freedom and quieten the mind.

4. Well-being

• 🌿 Ancient Wisdom comes from our role model Bhagavati Sati, also known as Bhagavati Aparna, Bhagavati Uma, and Bhagavati Parvati who initially prioritized position over peace, causing profound pain. 
• 🏞️ Reborn as Parvati (the daughter of the mountain), she sought solace with Bhagavan Shiva in the wilderness, symbolizing her commitment to inner peace. 
• 🍃  She was known as Aparna, the one who only ate leaves, and as Uma, for all the pain and suffering she faced but throughout this time, she was at peace, she was happy.  
•  Practice:
  • 🌳 Be in nature for the rejuvenation of the Body and Breath.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Embrace solitude by dating yourself for the serenity of the mind and intellect
• Observation: 
  • 🕊️ Svastika is a reminder for Well-being. Svasti is the Sanskrit word for Well-being (Su meaning well and asti meaning BEing. Ka is a reminder).
  • ☮️ Svastika is a symbol to remind us to be calm and quiet.

About Parenting Culture: Season 2023-24

Buckle up, fellow parents! Our Parenting Culture is gearing up for life changing ride in the coming year, and it's all about "Solving Parenting Challenges with Ancient Wisdom.” We look forward to being inspired by Vivekji as our guide with lessons from the Bhagavad Gita, Ramayana, and more. Here's the secret sauce: To be better caregivers, we've got to start by tuning up ourselves first. The more we understand ourselves, our life's mission, and spruce up our virtues. the better we can show our mini-me's the ropes to discovering their potential. It's like we're turning into life coaches for our kids! We'll tackle the hurdles of modern parenting with a three-part plan: tweaking what we do, how we feel, and what we think. It's like going from fixing a squeaky door to renovating the whole house, one step at a time. So, get ready to embrace your inner parenting guru and join us for a year of adventure, laughs, and enlightenment!🚀🤩👨‍👩‍👧‍👦