Is your partner living a double life without you knowing? Maybe you’re the one living a secret life, but you can’t tell your spouse. From gambling, drugs, and cheating to being a con artist, how well do we really know the person sleeping next to us? Where do we draw the line between trusting your partner and being a naïve fool?

In this episode, we discuss secret identities and people living double lives all while hiding it from their loved ones. How well do we really know someone, and should we ever blindly trust a person just because we’ve known them for a long time?

0:00 Intro

1:11 Welcome banter

7:29 Start of topic

9:06 I Care A Lot movie

15:50 Will is a secret agent

16:40 Guy scams 9 women

20:57 Trusting your instincts

21:58 Clingy vs naïve

26:48 Who are you sleeping with

29:11 Red flags

31:04 Listen to your gut

32:30 Shady coworkers

38:59 Professional identities

41:50 Lying to your kids

47:42 Little Fires Everywhere

49:48 Takeaways & lessons