Poly+Amor=Us

Living in the Gray Area

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This week we talk about what it means to live life in the gray areas. Nothing in life is black and white and that includes our relationships! Specific topics include:

  • As we’ve seen, monogamy works for some people but not everyone. Same with polyamory. So, why can’t we live somewhere in the middle?
  • Humans love to put labels on each other so we can easily understand each other. But not everyone fits into the labels and boxes we’ve created.
  • What is monogamish or monogamy +
  • Do monogamous people actually use “hall passes” or allow exceptions?
  • Exceptions should be normalized if they feel beneficial. But the don’t ask don’t tell rule should not apply. It can be harmful.
  • Get it out of your system vs. enjoy a temporary experience
  • Imagine if we talked about having gray area or wiggle room in a relationship UP FRONT instead of waiting for an attraction to start. What would that be like?
  • We don’t always know what we want out of relationships when they first start. So, rules and boundaries outside of monogamy should be discussed up front.
  • Not all rules and boundaries are set in stone. It’s ok to change to fit your needs!

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