In this episode of the Living Laterally podcast, I'm reading my essay: The Bombshell That Taught Me What A Boundary Really Is

It's the story of a relationship with a person I loved deeply but found increasingly exhausting, and the unexpected moment at a spiritual workshop when a mentor said something that stopped me in my tracks. I wrote his words down in my notebook that day, and they went on to change the way I handled difficult relationships for the rest of my life.

If you'd prefer to read the original essay (or join the conversation in the comments), you'll find it here on Living Laterally: The Bombshell That Taught Me What A Boundary Really Is

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Living Laterally is where I share the Sacred OMGs that completely change the way I see myself, other people, and the world... one sideways insight at a time. May these realizations become Joyful AHAs for you too.

Love Tahnee 💛

In this episode of the Living Laterally podcast, I’m reading my essay 'The Fingerprints Of The Matrix: How Not To Believe The S**t That’s Happening To You'.

It’s about one of the wildest ideas I’ve ever encountered: that unresolved trauma may not simply affect how we interpret reality, but may actually participate in creating the patterns that keep showing up in our lives.

Inspired by an idea I first encountered through Holographic Kinetics, developed by Steve Richards, I explore how different people, places and situations can carry the same underlying reality... and how recurring feelings may be the fingerprints that reveal the past playing itself out in the present.

If you'd prefer to read the original essay on Substack, you'll find it here: The Fingerprints Of The Matrix: How Not To Believe The S**t That’s Happening To You.

And if you'd like to join in the conversation, you can leave a comment here.

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Living Laterally is where I share the Sacred OMGs that completely change the way I see myself, other people, and the world... one sideways insight at a time. May these realizations become Joyful AHAs for you too.

Love Tahnee 💕

In this episode of the Living Laterally podcast, I'm reading my essay:

'The Maybe Pile': The Dating Insight That Changed My Life

It begins with a dating epiphany I had in my thirties... but quickly becomes something much bigger. It's the story of how creating one extra mental category changed the way I approached not only relationships, but people, opportunities and life itself.

If you'd prefer to read the original essay (or join the conversation in the comments), you'll find it here on Living Laterally: 'The Maybe Pile': The Dating Insight That Changed My Life

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Living Laterally is where I share the Sacred OMGs that completely change the way I see myself, other people, and the world... one sideways insight at a time. May these realizations become Joyful AHAs for you too.

Love Tahnee 💛

In this episode of the Living Laterally podcast, I'm reading my essay 'The Problem With The Problem Is That The Problem Is Not The Problem'

Inspired by the work of Moshe Feldenkrais, I explore why the place we experience a problem is often not where it began, and how looking beyond obvious symptoms can transform the way we approach our health, relationships, parenting, work, and life itself.

If you'd prefer to read the original essay, you'll find it here on Living Laterally as: The Problem With The Problem Is That The Problem Is Not The Problem.

And if you'd like to join in the conversation, you can leave a comment here.

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Living Laterally is where I share the Sacred OMGs that completely change the way I see myself, other people, and the world... one sideways insight at a time. May these realizations become Joyful AHAs for you too.

Love Tahnee 💕

In this episode of the Living Laterally podcast, I express my excitement at being here on Substack and my jaw-dropping discovery about this platform...

If you'd prefer to read the original essay, you'll find it here on Living Laterally as: On Substack Authenticity Is The Algorithm

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Living Laterally is where I share the Sacred OMGs that completely change the way I see myself, other people, and the world... one sideways insight at a time. May these realizations become Joyful AHAs for you too.

Love Tahnee 💕

In this very first episode of the Living Laterally podcast, I tell the story of how an unexpected toddler headbutt left me with a spectacular black eye... and somehow became the nudge I needed to finally launch Living Laterally.

It's a story about perfectionism, Human Design, following the energy, and what can happen when life interrupts our carefully laid plans.

If you've ever waited for the "right time" to begin something important, I hope this little story encourages you to trust the path that's unfolding in front of you... even when it smacks you in the face mid cuddles.

If you'd prefer to read the original essay, you'll find it here on Living Laterally as: How My Toddler Headbutted Me Into Following the Right Path.

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Living Laterally is where I share the Sacred OMGs that completely change the way I see myself, other people, and the world... one sideways insight at a time. May these Sacred OMGs become Joyful AHAs for you too.Love Tahnee xx ♡