What does it really mean to live the life you want—not the one others expect you to live?

In this heartfelt and soul-sparking episode, I’m joined by my longtime friend Nicole—college roommate, fellow finance grad, world traveler, mom, and all-around wise woman. We’ve shared over 20 years of friendship (yep, more than half our lives!), and in this episode, we reflect on the lessons we’ve gathered through love, loss, big moves, bold decisions, and everything in between.

Nicole shares her story of moving across the world, trusting her gut, and building a life that looks nothing like what others might have predicted—but everything like what she truly wanted.

We talk about:

• 🎒 The power of travel and why experiences matter more than stuff
• 💭 What it feels like to trust your intuition—even when the path isn’t clear
• 🧷 Why “living your own life” is harder—and more freeing—than it sounds
• 💡 What we’d tell our younger selves (and what we’re still figuring out now)

Whether you’re standing at a crossroads or simply reflecting on how far you’ve come, this conversation is your reminder that your story is valid, your strength is real, and your spark is worth following.

So go for a walk, settle in with your coffee, or throw in your earbuds while folding laundry — you won’t want to miss this one.

 ✨ Want to take it deeper?
Here are a few reflection questions to help you connect this episode to your own journey: 

• What’s a decision I’ve been holding back on because I’m afraid of the unknown?
• What does my gut know… that my brain is still trying to talk me out of?
• What would change if I gave myself permission to want what I want?
• Where in my life am I following someone else’s version of success—and what would it look like to rewrite that story?

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