Definition of offended.  Resentful or annoyed, typically as a result of a perceived insult.  Offense is the bait the enemy uses to trap us.  He will use people's words and actions to get our minds churning and stir up our emotions.  Steps to avoid offense:  1) Be smart.  Don't take the bait.  2) Forgive.  Because Jesus said to.  Unforgiveness is a heavy burden to carry.  3) There is not a limit to forgiveness.