Tucker and his girlfriend *REDACTED* grapple with having different long distance styles, how much to communicate, and how specific a person's "type" can get (answer: very). Tom reaches out to his ex before downloading all the apps again and asking important questions about whether it's OK to filter potential matches by race.

THEN, Tom debuts a new segment: Shoutouts.

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*NOTE* Despite our enthusiasm for saying Planetarium Girl's name in this episode, we decided to censor it. We're fickle. Sue us.

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