Aren't we all looking for the right intimate relationship. If this is  achieved you will solve 80% of your lifes problems because in a happy  relationship you will always want to do well and work well and set high  goals for self and your partner. Unhappy relationship only damage our growth and put us into depression. A  depressed mind cannot concentrate on work or look at growth.  I believe  relationship is the key to becoming a better to great person. After all  the only real deal of earth is to have others around us in flesh and  blood.