I grew up in a day when rules were strict, beds were made and lectures were delivered.  And ignoring the rules wasn’t an option!

Whether or not your home was like mine … you’re probably well aware … it’s not like that anymore.  These days, lecturing doesn’t snap a kid back into line … it simply causes him to shut down.

I’ve found that constant advice on how to do things “right” or “better” … only serve to create distance.  In fact, mom and dad, when all you do is lecture … your teen will begin to see you as judgmental.

And, of course, that’s not what you’re trying to communicate!  So learn new ways of engaging.  Cut the lecture.  Start the conversation!

 

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