We never think of ourselves as being fake, right? How much do you think about the respect you have for others? The lack of respect you have might be the reason you lack consistency or are not the most honest or real with others. Understanding what you’ve never had respect for regardless of if it’s right or wrong could help you find more clarity within your values and what you wanna let go of. Many things I recognized have to do with my lack of respect I have for the family and friends that were once a part of my life. What I’ve realized now is that it is OK not to have respect for everyone and everything that is around you. It is important to admit, however, that if you respect something or don’t respect something. This leads to recognizing patterns you may want to keep in your life to help you stay healthy to help you organize or maintain, or to let go of because you might realize that you’ve never respected these patterns, habits, or what you’ve noticed in the first place. It is always more important to admit what you don’t have respect for or even who you don’t respect; avoiding misleading other people. The most important life lesson I’ve learned is to not mislead other people with a false sense of respect or fake persona. To not connect myself to habits or patterns that do not naturally align with my environment. I go deep into how this relates to the parts of self-help. We don’t like to reflect on and the parts of self-help that could actually be good for us. That would be better without the obsessions.