Attraction is not enough to have and/or build a strong relationship. Therefore, it is important to not form intimate liaisons with people based on a single attribute or characteristic that we find attractive. To protect yourself from unnecessary trouble, stress and pain, ask yourself is he cute or caring? Is he fine or fatal? Is he kind or a killer? Is he responsible or reckless? Is he helping you or hurting you? Only move beyond attraction when you and the other person share the same values and character and relationship goals.