KT and David talk about BIG love – not the heart-festooned Valentine’s Day version. Is love earned? Why do we search for love when it is all around us? What did Rumi mean when he wrote about barriers? Do you need relationship or do you need community? The difference between marriage and the business of marriage. Kids. Partnership. Parenting. Priorities. Generations. Villages. Belongingness. Oh, and hairy legs, too!