I brought Mrs. Tamesha P. Ray on the show to give us men some enlightenment on how you can tell when your lady may not be ready for what you are ready for. There is nothing wrong with her not being ready. You (as a man) need to know when you need to let go & give a woman space to grow & develop. My personal views may not be appreciated on this episode (lol), but it was a very enlightening conversation. How does a woman show you that she wants a break? Maybe she needs time to find herself. This is how you know when to let her go.