What if I told you that some people are designed to struggle in love—and that this struggle is actually the pathway to their greatest purpose?

In this deeply moving episode of Love By Design, we explore Gate 28—the Gate of the Great Struggle, also known as the Gate of Love and Purpose. This is individual love at its most romantic, melancholic, and transformative.

Gate 28 says: "There is no purpose without love, and no love without purpose. And I must struggle to find both."

If you've ever felt like your relationships needed to have deep meaning, or wondered why love sometimes feels like beautiful suffering, this episode will illuminate one of the most profound Love Gates in the system.

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The struggle toward truth with another person can be the most romantic thing of all.

Some love is meant to transform you, not just comfort you.