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Finding Self-Love and Resilience

Denise Cesare explores the resilience found through disability, self-acceptance, and mindful creativity, weaving together disability rights, mental health advocacy, and the transformative embrace of inclusive fashion and self-love.

In this episode of The Inclusion Bites Podcast, Joanne Lockwood welcomes Denise Cesare for an open-hearted conversation entitled "Love in Motion." Denise shares her journey of resilience and innovation, moving from a traumatic voice loss caused by spasmodic dysphonia to creating inclusive, empowering fashion with her swimwear brand T Suit. They explore the intersection of mental health, disability advocacy, and body positivity, weaving Denise’s lived experiences with broader themes of belonging, self-love, and navigating societal expectations. Joanne and Denise examine the pressures and prejudices surrounding body image, the deficiencies in mental health support post-COVID, and the importance of mindful living for personal growth and collective inclusion.

Denise is a published author, keynote speaker, and specialist in social emotional learning, championing disability rights and body confidence. Her advocacy is grounded in personal experience as a speech language pathologist who reconsidered what it means to have—and lose—one’s voice. Her brand T Suit, founded on the premise that "we are not a size, we are a fit," offers swimmable cover-ups designed to enable anyone to feel confident and comfortable at the poolside. Denise has also penned "Moments in Motion with Love," a book born from the challenges of remote learning during the pandemic, aiming to reconnect young people with mindfulness and emotional resilience. Her holistic approach radiates through each project, seamlessly combining practical compassion with creative design.

Joanne and Denise discuss the impact of polarised politics, instant gratification culture, and the ways social media warps perceptions of self-worth. They underscore the significance of loving oneself, healing the “inner child,” and replacing judgement with acceptance, especially when supporting those facing adversity. The episode addresses how fashionable innovations, like Denise's T Suit, can drive social change by resisting exclusion and encouraging authenticity.

The key takeaway from this episode is the transformative power of practical compassion—whether in the classroom, at home, or through fashion. By advocating for fit over size and self-acceptance over conformity, Denise reminds listeners that resilience is rooted in self-love and belonging. Tune in for actionable insights, uplifting narratives, and a push to make inclusion visible, felt, and lived.

 
Published: 30.01.2026
Recorded: 22.09.2025
Duration: 1:03:26
 
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    Clips and Timestamps

    Viral Topic: Finding Connection During Lockdown: “We were all put on lockdown and we had to work remotely with speech. Speech and language students.”

    — Denise Cesare [00:11:50 → 00:11:55]

    Viral Topic: How Inspiration Strikes Creatives Overnight: At five o’ clock in the morning, I woke up with a book. The book came out of me in my sleep. Some people might not believe me, but I have the proof because I woke up my husband. I said, wake up. I wrote a book.

    — Denise Cesare [00:12:32 → 00:12:42]

    Viral Topic: Body Confidence and Inclusive Fashion: “But what I create, my creations are something special just to enhance the skin you’re in. So if you don’t really feel comfortable even in a swimsuit, because a lot of people do not.”

    — Denise Cesare [00:22:16 → 00:22:29]

    Viral Topic: The People’s Voice in Government: “We the people don’t have a voice, really. I mean, I have a voice, but not in government. Just don’t.”

    — Denise Cesare [00:35:46 → 00:35:53]

    The Power of Early Learning: “You have to infuse arts and music and all of these awesome things in the brain from birth to seven, that’s putting love in your brain.”

    — Denise Cesare [00:43:16 → 00:43:26]

    Overcoming Darkness and Finding Resilience: “During that time it was very dark. It was a dark time in my life. It was so dark and people go through this. That’s of the mental illness.”

    — Denise Cesare [00:49:01 → 00:49:10]

    The Power of Self-Love in Overcoming Darkness: “as much as I loved him, it wasn’t about my love for him that kept me here. It was my love for myself and the resilience and not wanting to give up and seeking things to get me to the next step.”

    — Denise Cesare [00:49:35 → 00:49:50]

    The Power of Self-Love: “So the bottom line with why I’m still here and sitting is I learned that love myself. Because if you don’t have self love, you don’t want to be here straight, straight out.”

    — Denise Cesare [00:50:42 → 00:50:51]

    Viral Topic – Understanding the Complexity of Pain: “So people do say people are selfish when they do that. I’m like, just go read up. Because it’s not about that. Because if they have everything, why would they do that?”

    — Denise Cesare [00:52:22 → 00:52:31]

    Viral Topic: The Benefits of Buying Directly from Authors:

    “There you can purchase my book and you will get it autographed if you choose to go through Amazon, which is fine because it comes in two seconds. You won’t get it autographed and you won’t get the updated version.”
    — Denise Cesare [00:59:23 → 00:59:35]

    Definition of Terms Used
    What is Spasmodic Dysphonia?
    • Definition: Spasmodic dysphonia is a rare neurological condition affecting the voice, where involuntary spasms in the vocal cords make speaking difficult, often producing a strained or choked vocal quality.
    • Relevance: In the episode, Denise Cesare shares her lived experience with this condition, highlighting both the emotional and practical challenges as a speech-language pathologist who lost her voice for an extended period.
    • Examples: Individuals may struggle to vocalise sounds and words, sometimes requiring medical interventions such as Botox injections to regain partial vocal function.
    • Related Terms: Voice Disorders, Dysphonia, Speech Therapy, Botox Injection, Neurological Conditions
    • Common Misconceptions: Spasmodic dysphonia is often mistaken for psychological issues or asthma. It is, in fact, a neurological disorder and not a reaction to stress or anxiety.
    • What is Inclusive Fashion?
      • Definition: Inclusive fashion refers to clothing designed to accommodate the diverse needs and embodied differences of all individuals, such as disability, body shape, or comfort requirements, rather than aspiring to exclusive beauty ideals.
      • Relevance: The episode explores how Denise’s swimwear brand ‘T suit’ was inspired by her own experience of wanting fashion that fostered confidence and dignity, challenging limited sizing and conventional swimwear norms.
      • Examples: Swimmable cover-ups like the T top and T dress that fit all bodies and enable wearers to move comfortably from pool to restaurant, without feeling the need to hide.
      • Related Terms: Adaptive Clothing, Body Positivity, Universal Design, Gender-Inclusive Fashion
      • Common Misconceptions: Inclusive fashion is sometimes perceived as being only for people with disabilities; however, its principles apply broadly to all bodies and identities.
      • What is Mindfulness?
        • Definition: Mindfulness is a mental state achieved through focused attention on the present moment, involving acceptance of feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations without judgement.
        • Relevance: Denise emphasises mindfulness as central to her work with young people, especially during COVID lockdowns, noting that it requires active practice to build resilience in both children and adults.
        • Examples: Using deep breathing to self-regulate anxiety, grounding exercises in classrooms, and movements paired with mindful narration (as in Denise’s book and related yoga video).
        • Related Terms: Meditation, Wellbeing, Mental Health, Self-regulation, Trauma-Informed Practice
        • Common Misconceptions: Many believe mindfulness is simply being ‘thoughtful’, but it actually involves deliberate and regular practice.
        • What is Neuroplasticity (Brain Mapping from Birth to Seven)?
          • Definition: Neuroplasticity refers to the brain’s ability to reorganise itself by forming new neural connections, particularly potent from birth to around age seven, as experiences “map” foundational skills and responses.
          • Relevance: Denise discusses how experiences, such as exposure to music or art—or conversely, violence—during early childhood can permanently influence brain wiring, emotional development, and mental health outcomes.
          • Examples: Teaching a child to play guitar before age seven helps them learn music more fluidly; conversely, early exposure to traumatic stimuli may result in behavioural and emotional difficulties later in life.
          • Related Terms: Early Childhood Development, Critical Periods, Emotional Intelligence, Learning Disabilities
          • Common Misconceptions: It is falsely assumed that significant learning or brain changes can occur equally at any age; however, early years are uniquely formative and less plastic after seven.
          • What is Body Positivity?
            • Definition: Body positivity is an inclusive movement that seeks to affirm and celebrate all body types, rejecting harmful beauty standards and promoting self-acceptance and respect.
            • Relevance: The podcast highlights how both Denise’s personal journey and her designs are rooted in fostering body positivity, countering the damaging influence of fashion industries and social media on self-worth.
            • Examples: Swimwear designed for comfort and confidence, promoting messages such as ‘you are not a size, you are a fit’, and encouraging people to disregard arbitrary sizing.
            • Related Terms: Self-Acceptance, Fat Positivity, Confidence, Anti-Diet Movement
            • Common Misconceptions: Some believe body positivity promotes unhealthy behaviours, whereas its core aim is creating dignity and respect for all bodies.
            • FAQ: Key Terms and Concepts from ‘Love in Motion’
              • What is Spasmodic Dysphonia? — A rare neurological voice disorder causing involuntary vocal cord spasms, discussed as a transformative challenge in Denise Cesare’s journey.
              • What is Inclusive Fashion? — Clothing designed to fit and empower all body types and needs, not limited by traditional beauty standards or sizing, as explored with T suit swimwear.
              • What is Mindfulness? — The intentional practice of focusing on the present moment with acceptance, vital for building resilience and wellbeing, especially in times of crisis.
              • What is Neuroplasticity (Early Brain Mapping)? — The brain’s ability to form foundational patterns through early childhood experience, critical for emotional and cognitive development.
              • What is Body Positivity? — An ethos and movement which encourages respect, acceptance, and celebration of all bodies, actively countering negative cultural messaging about size and appearance.
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