When we are confused about how to deal with a challenge, Jesus teaches, choose the way of love, but it's a particular kind of love that doesn't necessarily come easily nor naturally.  Jesus, on the last night with his student/disciples, before he was arrested,  reminded his followers of the most important teaching. Yes, it was learning to love, but it was a particular kind of love and it had nothing do do with being nice and agreeing so we can avoid conflict. Episode 42. The text is John 12:1-17