It’s not a question about choosing one, they work well together and in harmony, You can feel safe with someone… and still not be deeply connected to them and that’s where people get trapped. Because stability feels good. It feels peaceful, But without love…It becomes empty. Before you become who you’re meant to be…You have to let go of unhealthy patterns.

False identities, Versions of yourself that accepted less.

And this is where boundaries guide you, They don’t just protect you, They lead you, They remind you, You can love people, Without losing yourself.