You and your spouse won’t always be on same level spiritually, don’t marry performers but one with fruits of the spiritYou don’t enforce change you influence change.Watch out for spiritual values, they are non-negotiable.Be careful not to marry career against the person (character)Misconception of suitable, different in career but supportive to each otherspiritual growth is gradual and individual, Phil 1:3Encourage don’t compare, 1 Thess 5:11When you say the wrong things to your spouse you stolen the joy your family would have enjoyed.Lead by example not by pressurePray for your spouse for spiritual growth, always lift your spouse in prayers, call forth those things you want to seeInteraction/Connection can be built1 John 5:14Ask in accordance in God’s will