In this conversation, Zakkiya and Akilah explore their personal journeys toward self-love, discussing the importance of celibacy, womb healing, and the impact of trauma on relationships. They emphasize the need to lead with the heart and the significance of understanding one's own love language. The episode concludes with recommendations for resources that promote self-love and healing.

Resources

📚 Read: Pussy Prayers by Black Girl Bliss

🎬 Watch: Pretty Woman

🎶 Listen: Only If by Steve Lacy

🎶 Listen: Easy by Ella Mae

🎶 Listen: Good Morning Gorgeous by Mary J. Blige

Takeaways

- Self-love is a journey that requires introspection and dedication.

- Celibacy can provide clarity and help in understanding one's self-worth.

- Womb healing is essential to release past traumas and embrace self-love.

- Understanding love starts with knowing how to love oneself first.

- Leading with the heart allows for deeper connections and empathy.

- Trauma from childhood can shape our perceptions of love and relationships.

- Attracting the right partner requires being in a healthy emotional space.

- Resources like music and books can aid in the journey of self-love.

- It's important to address feelings of shame and guilt to heal.

- Creating a supportive community can enhance the journey of self-discovery.

Chapters

00:00 Journey to Self-Love

02:58 The Role of Celibacy in Self-Discovery

06:03 Healing Through Womb Work

08:57 Understanding Love and Relationships

11:54 The Importance of Heart Space

14:46 Trauma and Its Impact on Love

17:59 Attracting Love Through Self-Love

21:01 Resources for Self-Love and Healing