Beyond the Self

Love: The Magic that Happens when it Stops Feeling Good


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In this thought-provoking episode of Beyond the Self, we explore the deeper dimensions of love—what happens when the initial thrill fades and how true love reveals itself in moments of challenge. Inspired by a friend's insightful definition, "Love is the thing that happens when it stops feeling good," we dive into the choice to stay, work through discomfort, and build resilience in relationships. From understanding the fleeting nature of limerence to embracing the concept of "choosing your pain," this episode uncovers the magic that emerges when we push beyond surface-level joy and commit to deeper, more meaningful connections.

Tune in to discover how love, like anything worthwhile, grows in the moments when it’s hardest to stay—and why that’s where the real beauty begins.

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Beyond the SelfBy Destwin J. Adotey