What is YOUR cross? Your cross is self-sacrifice. It's what you will carry for others; it's what you will give up for the benefit of someone else. Your cross is what you will do for someone other than yourself. "If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it." (Matthew 16:24-25)