Sharing and feeling love with another person is a journey, none of which are exactly alike. And I think keeping that fact in mind is key. Key as well is understanding that your vision of a healthy, happy relationship may be slightly or drastically different from your partners and the only way to discover this is to communicate and begin to reveal your lives together, your real selves, yes, your best selves, but knowing that we will have off days and even in those days our best selves will be different.Love asks us to look within and examine ourselves. This can be scary, but often when something is scary it is life’s way of saying, look a little closer, examine what is really going on because in so doing, you will set yourself free.