Above all, have fervent and unfailing love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins [it overlooks unkindness and unselfishly seeks the best for others]. - 𝟏 𝐏𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝟒:𝟖

If your wife isn't submitting to you, check your love walk. Your wife will respond to True Love (in action).

But if you live contrary to what you preach, you'll receive contrary to what you want.