In this powerful episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, we sit down with The Anthonys to explore what it truly means to experience restoration in marriage. Love isn’t always picture-perfect. Sometimes it’s rebuilding trust after disappointment. Sometimes it’s choosing forgiveness when it’s hard. And sometimes it’s fighting for healing when walking away feels easier.

In this conversation, we unpack:

• What marriage restoration really looks like in real life
• Rebuilding emotional connection after hurt 
• The role of faith in healing broken seasons
• Choosing commitment when feelings fluctuate
• How restoration strengthens your legacy as a couple 

If you’ve ever felt disconnected, discouraged, or unsure how to move forward in your relationship, this episode offers hope, practical wisdom, and a reminder that restoration is possible.

Because love can be renewed.

In this episode of Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, hosts Dr. Lara and Memi sit down with Selah and Russell Fugett for a powerful conversation on what it truly means to love through healing. From navigating alcohol recovery and emotional trauma, to the nuances of interracial marriage, to building a Kingdom-centered legacy, this episode dives deep into what it means to have a strong foundation to stay committed to yourself, to your partner, and to your legacy.

We explore:

• The role of faith in addiction recovery and emotional restoration
• How love can truly be color blind 
• Why legacy isn't just what you leave behind, but what you live out daily
• What a Kingdom marriage really looks like when no one is watching
• How not giving up on love means choosing healing over perfection

If you’ve ever felt like your love story has hit a wall or if you’re searching for hope in the hard parts, this one’s for you.

🎧 Tune in and be reminded that love is messy, healing, but always worth it.

In this powerful episode of Loving Me Loving You Loving Us, we sit down with DMV-based couple Drs. Tony and Shewa Awoojodu, who’ve been growing in love since their college days. With two beautiful daughters and a foundation of purpose, and fun, they’ve faced challenges that social media could never tell you.

Known for their beautiful aesthetic, power couple energy, and “good vibes only” motto, this couple has lived through real life—including parenting through what some would call setbacks and walking through seasons of misunderstanding from outsiders. They don’t try to be your relationship goals—they are committed to staying aligned, grounded, and completely in their own lane.

In this episode, we explore: how they've navigating love for nearly 20 years together, parenting through uncertainty with grace, shattering public perceptions to protect their peace, and creating a marriage that’s fun and real to them. You’ll laugh, reflect, and walk away reminded that love isn’t a performance—it’s partnership.

This week on Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us, we’re sitting down with Lordley and Chinelo Okarter — a power couple putting purpose, God, and growth at the center of their love story. Lordley and Chinelo are living proof that love hits different when it’s aligned with something bigger. They’re all about investing in each other, pouring into God’s Kingdom, and making sure their marriage reflects the love of Christ in real-time, not just church talk.

From building wealth with intention to staying rooted in faith, the Okarters share how they keep their relationship fresh, fun, and fully aligned with their mission — to make sure everybody hears the gospel before Jesus comes back.

This episode is for anyone who wants a faith-filled relationship that’s just as strong behind closed doors as it looks on social media

We’re kicking off our new Loving Me, Loving You, Loving Us series with a couple that embodies joy, culture, and connection — the Shofs! This Nigerian-American duo has captured hearts online through their vibrant lifestyle, family-first values, and effortless chemistry.

In this episode, Dr. Lara and Memi sit down with the Shofs to unpack their love story — from navigating cultural expectations to building a marriage that honors both tradition and fun. We talk dating, communication, parenting, and what it really takes to keep the spark alive while raising a family in the spotlight.

If you’ve ever wondered how real couples actually make it work behind the highlight reels — this one’s for you.